Clearly my subject were definition to a marriage ceremony... (˘_˘")
But what I'm really wana talk about is how many out there didn't really understand about ijab n kabul,the rules of marriage and sometimes misunderstood the benefits from it..
Especially when we read newspaper headlines today..marriage abuses,child abuses,syariah cases,nusyuz,taqliq and all..
The mistakes came form us,human of course..reason = too ego to accept self lack of perfection
I have different of experiences heard around my relatives lately..
As my parents..they didn't go well thou..so..out of the hook here..
2 of my aunt are married to mualaf..unc heins originally swiss,and unc brian were portugese..they both are such a wonderfull husband I ever met..they treat my aunts well..much2 better than malay guys..this is true..and fact that I've saw with my naked eyes..
I didn't prejudice malay thoughts of marriage..but I do somtimes sadly regret to man who become overpower with the status of husband..but then he can be toleranted and understandable..2 things that make a marriage happily ever after and last till death..
Unc brian n unc heinz when comes to religion..their practice on islam is more deeper than we are today who was born as 'muslim' ...sad huh? (˘_˘")
Wish my marriage will be as happy as my aunts have..
I don't wana b like my parents..I'm really hope there someone out there full of love come and rescue my mom's heart
But best yet and fact...we all bound to this custom..so don't be ridiculos of the HAK and HAKIKI..
Think OutSide The Box
XOXO
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